At the beginning of every love and relationship story, there is this inevitable purgatory dubbed the “talking stage.” When this stage moves in sloth speed, it leaves women feeling trapped, frustrated, uncertain, and undervalued. If you find yourself stuck in this emotional quicksand, it’s time to take a step back, reassess your situation, and reclaim your power.
- You’re Allowing It: Are you settling for less than you deserve, accepting vague promises and empty gestures instead of concrete actions and genuine commitment? If so, it’s time to raise your standards and demand the love you truly merit.
- You are Settling for Less: A woman or man of high value knows her/his/their worth and refuses to settle for mediocrity. If you constantly find yourself in situations or “personal hells” where your partner is lukewarm or uncommitted, it’s a clear indication that you’re not being treated with the respect and affection you deserve. Don’t settle for crumbs when you deserve the whole cake.
- Stuck in the Idea: Sometimes, men and women become so enamoured with the idea of being with someone that they neglect the reality of the relationship. They may shower you with attention and affection in the early stages, but when it comes to making a real commitment, they retreat into inaction. Let that not be you. Don’t fall for the illusion of love; demand the substance.
- Ex-Baggage: One of the most common reasons for a man’s or woman’s hesitation is unresolved baggage from a previous relationship. If your partner is still emotionally entangled with an ex, it’s unfair to expect them to fully invest in a new connection. Don’t waste your time waiting for someone who’s still tied to the past.
Maybe it’s time to move on?
Truthfully, the talking stage is supposed to be very brief—a period of mutual exploration, not an indefinite holding pattern. If you’ve been stuck in this manufactured limbo for months or even years, it’s time to have an honest conversation with your partner. If they’re unwilling to move forward, it’s time to walk away and create space for someone who truly values you.
Remember, you are worthy of love, respect, and commitment. Don’t allow yourself to be held back by someone who’s not ready or willing to give you the love you deserve. Step out of the talking stage limbo and seek a partner who mirrors your worth and desires.
You deserve a love that is clear, unwavering, and unapologetically real.
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